Dame Products 83586: Sex Pillo Indigo

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Though you can use it to nap according to Dame, Pillo doesn't feel like a moldable down pillow. It's firmer and actually made of the same material as the Nugget: polyurethane foam. Further, it's slanted like a ramp. It's 18 inches wide, 15 inches long, and 7 inches at its tallest height. My partner and I can lie on the widest part of Pillo no problem. You can use typical sleep pillows, but you might find better support with firmer material and a different shape. This is partially why the children's couch Nugget became an online craze for "after dark" use; not only is the material more supportive, but they come in innovative designs perfect for getting it on. If either partner is concerned about cleanliness, take a shower beforehand — maybe even together. Then again, Mintz said, the giver may love the smell of sweat after a hard workout. This is why you communicate about your preferences! Great sex is all about hitting the right angles, but finding them can take some experimentation. That’s why a sex pillow is game-changing: These cushions are designed to support and direct the body, opening you up to a wider range of feel-good positions. We spoke to experts to figure out how to shop for sex pillows—and which ones will set you up for success. What should you consider when shopping for a sex pillow?

King explained how sex pillows can help with a variety of positions, including missionary, from behind, and rider-on-top. During the former two, the pillow props up the receiving partner's hips and pelvis to more easily achieve deep penetration. For the latter, a pillow can help the rider bounce more comfortably. First off, talk about wanting to give or receive oral sex with your partner. This is especially important if you're with someone new. Vulvas are unique as snowflakes, said Gigi Engle — ACS, certified sex educator who specializes in gender, sexuality, and relationship diversity — so when you're with a new partner it's fair to assume you're going in blind. Be willing to be flexible; this partner may like different moves than people you've been with in the past.To clean the vulva, Mintz advised to separate the labia and wash between them — with either water alone or mild, unscented soap — once a day. Don't use harsh soaps or douches, as that's not good for vaginal health. Another downside is that Pillo only comes in one color, indigo. It happens to clash with just about everything in my cream and mauve decor. While Dame touts Pillo as a "master of disguise" that "blends right into your bedroom," I don't find that to be the case for me. That's not a total loss — I'll live, and continue to use Pillo as it's so much fun — but I'll be holding out for more neutral colors.

You can incorporate actual vibrators and other toys, as well. These can be especially helpful if the giver gets tired performing oral or fingering.You can sext or talk in-person. Having a post-coital talk may be easier to muse over what you want to try next time, Reed said. If you're receiving, ask what they like or say what you'd like to do with them. With Pillo, we spend less time getting into position, and more time having fun in said position. I have no doubt that the more my partner and I use Pillo, the more variety we'll discover.

I believe any couple can find at least one use for Pillo. It's an easy, low-tech way to have more pleasurable sex and to get that much closer to your partner. But those who are inexperienced or perhaps uneducated may ask: How should someone perform cunnilingus? Beyond those small snags, Pillo is about as perfect as a sex pillow could be in my opinion. It's the right size for both usage and storage on my bed, and it's versatile no matter what kind of sex you have.Plus, it's in the normal price range for quality sex pillows. Pom takes 2 hours to reach a full charge. Once fully charged, Pom lasts 1 hour on the highest setting. How do I charge my EVA 2? Pillo is also immensely helpful for tribbing, the sexual act of rubbing vulvas together or rubbing the vulva on another body part, like a thigh. We've used it for a missionary-style position, and also for a scissoring-style tribbing (arranging ourselves like, well, colliding scissors).My partner and I use Pillo every time we're at my place. It's just as mind-blowing an addition to bedroom activities as a sex toy, in my opinion, and there's no motor to be found. Consider whether using protection is best for you. STIs can be transmitted through oral sex, so you're not in the clear just because penetration isn't involved. If you and your partner already share bodily fluids (are "fluid bonded") and don't use protection, then you can skip it. The good news is, there's no one way you "should" go down on someone — but there are important steps. Three sex experts laid out how to best perform cunnilingus, from communication to foreplay. Let's talk about oral sex, baby The Guide to Getting it On by Paul Joannides, specifically the chapter "Oral Sex: Vulvas & Honey Pots" This is where it is important to follow your partner’s cues, pay attention to what they like, and practice," Reed said. "The fun is in the practice."