Swingers - True confessions from today's swinging scene

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I still love her anyway but I wonder if she doesn’t cheat now because she thinks nobody would have her. Maybe that’s a good thing but I can tell she’s profoundly unhappy. After we had a few couples all those years ago, she started cheating. It was with a guy she had sex with when I had sex with his wife at the swingers club.

It boasts a dungeon area with "original beams", communal and private playrooms as well as a large 35-plus seater jacuzzi. How she got into it:“I grew up with this idea that there’s not just one person for anyone and that we can enjoy being with multiple people, as well as the idea that you can have sex without having emotion tied to it. My husband knew that I was bi-curious when we met, so on the anniversary of our first date, we decided to explore and went to a swingers club.”If you are not 100% into the "open marriage" thing, it will DESTROY your marriage. Do not accept this "just to keep her". If all you want is her, but she's not satisfied with only you, then it will NEVER work.

I had been worried that John didn’t love me anymore, and that it was the reason why he was going out and exploring his newfound sexuality with new people. But I soon understood that this wasn’t true.

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She explained sometime after this that at the beginning she was feeling distant from her husband, he was pushing her to have kids and, according to her, being a d---. I wasn't that guy. Trust the source. Research the promote or group throwing and the party and make sure they prioritize consent and acceptance. You are letting her dictate the situation----don't go 3some, or open mge. If she is married then she needs to act married, and that is a 2some. That's what she took vows to do, for the rest of her life.

Her advice to those considering the lifestyle:“For couples who are considering it, we suggest that you better have a really good relationship starting out because it doesn’t fix broken relationships, it only breaks them up faster. Also, you need to have conversations with your spouse or partner before you go into it. Know your rules and limits before you get into a situation because you can’t really get upset with your partner if you didn’t talk about.” Jody was introduced to swinging five years ago and is currently single. She loves her work as a sex coach and says if it weren’t for swinging, she wouldn’t be where she is now. You better read and RE-read Chrome Barracuda's post to you. Women don't want weak, whipped men ... and that is exactly how you are acting. REMEMBER, in a relationship, the one who cares the LEAST has all the power ... and you have ceded ALL power in this relationship to your W.

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I couldn't believe the same argument went for three years. One fine day I shouted at him and asked 'What is that he wanted from me in his life?' That was left at that. Since then i have always tried to find a guy to join us. The problem about all this i was never honest to her and telling her that i was actually looking for a guy to join us in bed. One time i met a couple online and told them if they wanted to get together for drinks, they agreed and we all met. I told my girlfriend that we were meeting a friend of mine and his wife when in reality we were meeting a random couple. My girlfriend was having a blast drinking with them until she finally found out that they were a swinging couple because her and the wife went to the restroom together. After she seem like she didn't care and continued to drink but I knew she was mad at me. We spent much of the day exploring the beautiful scenery with our friends, reaffirming that the bond between swingers extends well beyond the bedroom. The pleasure on his face was palpable as we gave him a blowjob together, as was the pleasure on ours when he took turns going down on us. The session ended with him taking her from behind while burying his fingers in me, leaving all of us sweaty and breathless. Two days later my wife scheduled a three hour spa treatment for me at our resort. I had no idea what to expect. When I arrived I was taken to an open area in the mens section and asked to to remove my clothes. As they walked me to the massage area, I noticed that others had robes and I was the only one fully nude, which seemed odd. I also noticed some smiles/laughs that must have been due the very small penis I was not so proudly revealing.

Rage. Anger. Embarrassment. etc... I'm on an emotional roller-coaster right now. I suspect that she isn't telling me everything about the incident, and I suspect it is with one guy who she has already denied and said it is someone else. I also suspect that it was more than once. I'm guessing twice based on evidence. I'm really mad about this. We had just had a vasectomy reversal done in the hopes of having more kids and I think this happened while I was on bed rest and couldn't go out with the group. Once he was inside the swinging subculture, Stern was surprised by what he found. He explains that he had preconceived notions of swingers that weren’t exactly flattering or, apparently, accurate. “The major stereotypes are that swingers are a subculture of overly libidinous miscreants that want to [have sex with] anything with a pulse,” he says. What he found, however, was that swingers are just regular men and women who may be a little more kinky than the average person, and often a lot more tolerant. “I’ve found swingers to be the most accepting and caring lot I’ve come to know in this life,” Stern says. “It’s probably because we’re all outside society’s norm, so we understand.” I was eager to start, and John and I agreed we would reassess the situation if I realised I didn’t like it.The crux came when she mentioned going out with the girls and bringing one home for a threesome (never done before but briefly talked about) and then she said that maybe she would bring a guy home instead because she "wanted some spice in her life". I had never heard her say that before, so I confronted her with my suspicions that she cheated on me already and the told her the circumstantial evidence I noticed, and she confessed to getting drunk while out with the group and had sex once with one of the guys in the circle of friends.