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My wife and I have been married for 14 years. About three years ago, I encouraged my wife to have a threeway with a work buddy of mine. It went ok. We were all so drunk, but it was fun. He joined us a few more times after that night and then he was gone. Not long after, I ran into a longtime friend that I hadn’t seen much of over the years. I started thinking about wild sex, approached him with the question and he agreed, happily! I approached my wife with the idea and assured her he was cool with it. She shyly said OK. He was what I had fantasies about, regarding a MFM threeway. It turned into a two or three times a week thing for almost a year. He ended up marrying this girl and we stopped having sex. That was three years ago and I’m waiting to find another to join us again, but my wife is not acting like she wants to! I fantasize about it and want to talk about it, but she says no! Is there a way for me to interest her again without her knowing at the time? Or is it just a fantasy now? — Confused Hub Is there a chance she'll love another room and stay in there instead? Sure. Just like there’s always a chance one of us will fall in love with someone else and decide to end our marriage. But I don't think that having sex outside our marriage increases that risk. In fact, I believe it decreases it, because it removes all the fantasy. I don't pine. If I want someone (and he wants me), then I have him. I didn’t keep any of this from my husband. Almost from day one, he was in the know about what I liked and what I craved in bed, and he wasn’t opposed to it. In fact, he was very direct in telling me how he’d like to see me with another man. Finding Out He Really Did Want To Share Me With Another Man How to do it: One of the men (giver) in the MFM/MMF triad lies down while the woman (receiver) faces him, climbs on top, and rides him. Then, the other man inserts his penis (or finger/dildo) into her anus from behind.
What I didn’t expect was him sending her with enough cash to buy all three of us dinner and enough liquor to have a party. The three of us and my roommate and his fiancé play drinking games and get steadily drunker and more raunchy. My roommate and his fiancé step out for a second and girl #1 leans over and says “you know we’re having a threesome tonight, right?” And then bit my ear, which is a huge turn on.
This is in no way a prescription for anyone else to try any form of ethical non-monogamy if it's not their thing.
It was about 5 years ago. I had a 22y/o employee (girl) which upon starting to work for me showed interest. We became Facebook friends and did a lot of chatting. She became friends with my wife as well (oh yeah… I’m married). One night over a fb chat which got intimate she mentioned that she always wanted to join a couple. I joked about it but was super turned on from the idea as my wife and I always thought about it but never acted.
This doesn’t have anything to do with how much you love your partner or how devoted to them you are. Kinks are kinks regardless of your romantic feelings, and sometimes you just want to discuss them with your significant other in hopes of them helping you bring those kinks to life. Last summer, my husband and I tried to make a triangle work with one of my friends. We had loads of difficulties, and it has since ended, but the one thing that worked fine was the sex. I am upset that she did what she did and broke the trust that we're in counseling seeking to repair. Now, I’ll be honest, I thought this was a wind-up and effectively said so. My wife then messaged the other woman and in less than five minutes, I'd been sent confirmation that she wants to do this and a picture of her wearing very little. It turns out this woman- who for the sake of argument I’ll call Ann because it’s not her name and it’s easy to type- has a high sex drive coupled with being shy and socially awkward. She wants to get laid and my wife wants to watch it. I asked why this is a turn-on and my wife just explained that over the last few months she’s become fixated on the idea of watching me have sex with another woman.How to do it: The ultimate oral fantasy where two partners get on their knees and take turns giving head to one partner. If the receiving partner has a penis, one giving partner can focus on the penis while the other can focus on the balls. Or, if the receiving partner is into analingus, one giver can blow him from the front while the other can rim him from behind. 69 + 1 He had no problems with my husband being a part of it and watching. His understanding tone and impressive physique ultimately convinced us that he was the right guy to try this with for the first time. He wasn’t needy like any of the other men we talked to, not immature or inexperienced. He had an air of quiet assuredness about him that I couldn’t resist. So as adult human beings, we shouldn't be able to detach ourselves from fantasy and reality? I don't buy into that youkiddingme. Yes, we discussed how hot it would be, but at no point was there a green light to go mess around with anyone, regardless of what fantasy we BOTH were having.
It got to the point where I was thinking about other men and potential threesomes almost every night. I had prostate surgery and could no longer give my wife the satisfaction she deserved.. I suggested to her that we arrange a date with the widower of a freind. As expected my wife was rreluctant to go far enough to have sex with him. I explained that seeing her achieve the satisfaction she needed would also excite me. She agreed to at least have the opportunity. We agreed that we could stop at any time she wanted. She said it was pale and she thought it was a naked person crawling behind some trees. She saw them stand up against a tree and that’s when she honked the horn and they dropped down and crawled away. I'm seeking advice on how to stop her from believing this fantasy may become a reality because it's not the actual act that won't turn me on, but it's the aftermath I don't think she is fully considering like I am. We have two young children, and I can't imagine complicating their lives for a night of euphoria brought on by sex. Yes, the idea turns me on significantly, but her behavior the other night about being upset that I'm not in agreement with taking strides to make this happen has me thinking....
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Saying no wasn’t as difficult as I thought it would be. The guys I politely rejected were totally cool with it, as this saved a lot of time on both sides. We could all move on to other people without feeling led on in any way. Online chatting had loosened me up a lot. I could never imagine I’d be so comfortable with talking to strangers about sex, given how awkward that was for me in real life. It was another lazy evening at our house, us with a bottle of wine and some show on TV. We talked about everything and nothing, as we usually did, and once again, we arrived at the topic of sex. And then he said it; calmly, cooly, he said how he thought about it and how he would actually like to watch me have sex with someone else.
That’s when we started easing into the whole thing. We went online in search of wife-sharing guides and instructions on how to do this properly, and we started preparing. Lots of the best advice was found on these hotwife Reddits. I was so incredibly happy. Wife-Sharing Simulations I just couldn’t bring myself to do anything more than kissing and touching because it really didn’t turn me on at all. She did some stuff to me and it was alright but not the same as what I feel with a guy. It’s strange because I’ve always enjoyed lesbian porn but the real deal just wasn’t for me. 5. “Spit roasting.” So, I need advice from strangers on how to handle this. As it stands, I am inclined to say “no” so advice on how to say this without hurting my wife’s feelings would be appreciated. If you're going to say "go for it", I'll need some clear explanations how to avoid it going weird or wrong later on. Are you prepared to be open and honest every step of the way? Communication is key. Without communication, none of this would have happened in the first place.
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Probably not what you were looking for in a response…..but that was my experience with a threesome. 14. :( Eh. It was okay. He was drunk and high on something, so I wouldn’t say he performed well. Plus he ended up trying to do too many things at once. Ended up going home with a sore vagina from ‘banjo fingering’. 16. Simply amazing. Namely, no one other than my husband had seen my body in 10 years. I wasn’t in my twenties anymore. I was thirty and a lot has changed since I was all young and tight. From a guy’s point of view the memory and idea of it were way better than the actual thing. We were in a car, one girl straddling me while making out with the one next to her. We took turns using our hands to make sure the off girl was well taken care of. When one finished they switched spots. Rinse and repeat. Pro tip:“Make sure that you communicate a lot so movements remain coordinated. Avoid creating too much space between you three, or else someone will slip out. Moreover, make sure you use lots of lube to keep the action going.” The Human Centipede
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