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You want something you can clean pretty easily, especially if you’re going to be using it with multiple partners. Wearing a strap-on harnesses can allow folks with penises who have erectile dysfunction or who have had their prostates removed to have sex with and please their partner in the way they are used to,” explains sex and relationships educator Sarah Sloane, who’s been teaching strap-on classes at Good Vibrations and Pleasure Chest since 2001. Something machine-washable means you can wash it and not have to worry about germs or bacteria transmission,” says Sloane. This will make getting lube out easier too. Sex toys are considered novelty items, which means they aren’t regulated by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA). That means you have to figure out if the material of the toy is body-safe or porous.

during masturbation before you go right to pegging,” says clinical sexologist Megan Stubbs, Ed.D. This helps prep the sphincter, or the ring of If a person with a penis has a partner with a vulva, the harness can be worn by their partner to achieve anal penetration. It might be confusing to know what to look for when shopping for a dildo and harness. According to Halliday, the dildo is often the most important piece for the receiving partner—but for the giving partner, a good harness is crucial.If you've made it this far, you may be wondering what a strap-on dildo actually is. "A strap-on dildo is a two-piece sex toy consisting of a strap-on harness and a dildo," Halliday explains. "Both harnesses and dildos come in many different styles, sizes and materials, so you and your partner can have a lot of fun experimenting." What's the best way to shop for a strap-on dildo? Your dildo should align with your needs and desires for harness play. To reiterate, if you have a partner who you’re planning to use the dildo on or with, take them to the store if you. You’re going to want a nonporous material, especially if the toy is going to be inserted into the anus where there’s a lot of bacteria,” says Stubbs.

You’re probably going to get the most use out of a dildo that is 5 to 6 inches long and 1.5 to 1.75 inches in diameter,” says Sloane. That may be too big for your partner, especially if they’re new to pegging or penetration. Anal play can also be enjoyable for people with vaginas. “The anus has thousands of sensitive nerve endings concentrated around the opening and the outer part of the rectum,” mentions Boyajian. “Stimulating this part of the body, paired with the excitement of doing something ‘taboo’ can allow those with vaginas to orgasm fully.”

Although online shopping has taken over, Halliday says that the best way to shop for a strap-on dildo is actually person. "It gives you the opportunity to see the wide array of options, as well as feel the materials and sizes." Other than making sure all partners are aware of how to physically prepare, remember that there is a major emotional component to the sex act, especially if it's someone's first time. Make sure to communicate beforehand about both of your desires, expectations, and fears. "When it comes to pegging, even though that dildo is not part of your anatomy, you are still inserting a part of yourself in someone else, and that’s extremely intimate. There’s a great responsibility, because you are entering them," Domina Katarina says. Pegging also requires immense trust; being penetrated anally with a strap-on dildo by a pro-domme or dominant partner allows cishet men to not only receive anal pleasure but become vulnerable and submissive, which is a common sexual desire. What products and techniques should I use? THE REVIEW: This is my first harness and I am so happy with it. It's soft velvet on the inside so it doesn't slip and the outside is so pretty! Comfortable Strap-On and Harness Sometimes called pegging, this form of anal penetration can be incredibly physically pleasurable for people with penises, says Boyajian. “The prostate is located just a few inches inside the anus, toward the belly. For some, stimulating the prostate can produce pleasurable sensations and better orgasms.”

With tons of harness options on the market, figuring out what material, style, and price point you want may take some savvy. If you prefer the look of an underwear-style harness, as many folks who are new to strap-on sex are, be sure to take careful measurements of your thighs and waist before shopping to make sure you’re getting the right size. Underwear harness recommendations Most commonly used for pegging (that’s dildo-in-butt) and strap-on sex (that’s dildo-in-any-hole play), strap-on harnesses secure a dildo in front of the wearer's genitals, like a make-shift penis. Nearly as versatile as a sex pillow, strap-ons can be used for both vaginal and anal penetration, as well as to simulate a blow job and more, adds Deysach. A good tip is to size down, especially if you’re a beginner. “You might be looking at it and think, That’s so small! But if you’ve never tried anal or penetration before, definitely start off smaller than you think,” she says. Basically, don’t go big, go home, and then realize that it’s too big. A lot of prostate owners don’t get to stimulate their prostate, and that’s a whole other orgasm available to you. You’re opening yourself up to other avenues of pleasure," says New York City dominatrix Domina Katarina. The prostate, or P-spot, is roughly three to four inches inside the rectum, about an inch in diameter. The person with a prostate can usually let you know when you've found it as they'll start to feel sensations reminiscent of an orgasm.The anus does not self-lubricate, so lube is an absolute must for anal play,” says Boyajian. “No matter how turned on you may be, there is nothing to prevent unwanted friction unless you add lube. Not only does this help to prevent painful microtears, but it will make anal sex way more pleasurable,” they say. Now that you know which style you want, keep harness material in mind. Harnesses come in a variety of materials including rope, leather, neoprene, nylon, spandex, polyester, or a mix of these. Again, the harness can have a dildo built in but usually comes separately so you can attach one. Keep in mind: If you’re going to be using the strap-on for penetration as opposed to masturbation or oral play, you don’t want a silicone toy that’s too soft, such as Cyberskin or Ultra Skin.