Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders

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He has them when he’s masturbating, when he’s day dreaming, probably when it looks like he’s watching TV. Your natural questions might include: ‘Why on earth would he want me to lock his penis up so that he can’t even touch it? The reward that comes too easily is less worth having, so make him work hard for your approval: it will mean more to him if he really has to earn it. A blow to the testicles is bad news for a man at any time, if those testicles are trapped against metal or plastic when they are struck then it will be much, much worse. The above discussion has mainly been about the possible effect of various periods in chastity on your man’s physical health.

By making these lists, you are defining the currency with which he will be able to earn and repay your gift, and creating the ledger that will show you (and him – remember that he wants you to enjoy this, too) that the effort has been worth your while. Decent information, but I did not agree with everything, such as the insistence that a male in long term chastity needs to be milked regularly for prostate health.And to be honest, if he is asking for you to be his keyholder, then he should at least be able to complete this exercise for you. Within a heterosexual relationship, the term refers to the case where the man refrains from any kind of sexual gratification unless granted permission by his wife or girlfriend. It is aimed at couples who want to rev up their sex life, who are prepared to experiment with new ideas, who are responsible and caring enough to take one another’s well-being seriously, and who perhaps wish to go further than occasional bedroom play. In an age where many of us often forget what truly counts, to be helped toward an understanding of the real things in our lives is no small gift.

As with any piercing, proper aftercare and good hygiene are essential to avoid problems such as infection. If the cuff closes up accidentally while locked to your man, and the key’s not available – well, you don’t really need me to spell it out for you, do you?

Also take care with cycling, horseback riding or other activities where the device might lead to excessive compression, or where it could inhibit the needed freedom of movement or posture. If he wants you to flog him, or to dress him up as a ‘sissy maid’ or as an overgrown baby, and if the idea leaves you cold – what do you do? And the discussions were practical and within the ability of a couple to incorporate in their lives.