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Who Needs a Spanking? (Alexia's Books)

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When I was about 20 years old, I met an old pastor’s wife who told me that when she was young and had her first child, she didn’t believe in striking children, although spanking kids with a switch pulled from a tree was standard punishment at the time. In a general social survey in the United States it shows that parents approval of corporal punishment is decreasing.

Spanking in front of others, especially friends or siblings, can be intensely embarrassing for your child. This for anybody going through tough times / Believe me, been there, done that / But every day above ground is a great day, remember that. The setting where the timeout takes place isn’t as important as the fact you are tying the misbehavior to the consequence.Afterward, the lesson should be gently reiterated so that the child understands and learns from this teachable experience. There is nothing wrong with wanting to be in better shape, but do it at a pace that is right for you.

When someone goes before a judge, even for serious offenses, they are doing so because they broke the law; it’s not personal.It was also tough because it caused me to think back on how I badly mishandled this with my own boys.

Another survey they referenced "found 71 per cent of parents of under 12s said they had used “minor” physical abuse when punishing their children (58 per cent in the past year)".We might be angry because they continue to push the boundaries and we haven’t disciplined them yet, so we just get hotter and hotter until we explode. Parents have an ongoing opportunity and responsibility to teach our children how to love well and live life as effectively and healthfully as possible. You can be completely in the wrong, totally screw up, be smacked across the rear for it, and still be loved by your parents. I have been on the positive and negative ends of discipline with the paddle, where in some cases it was used as the only means to discipline me and others it was reserved for the worst offenders – still me – and was administered with extreme prejudice.

Act the way you want your child to act, even if you aren't sure that your child is paying attention. My advice for you is to choose a discipline strategy that is not only positive and without harm, but EFFECTIVE. You would have turned out fine even if you weren’t spanked (and your childhood would have been a lot less painful). Talking can help clarify the situation: either helping the child realize why their decision was a bad one or helping you realize that your child didn't misbehave after all.

They recommend not using aggressive behavior with your kids as it can have negative effects and ultimately doesn’t change children’s behavior. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our Terms of Service, Privacy Policy( Your California Privacy Rights) and Do Not Sell or Share My Personal Information. I attribute those spankings to always making me think three or four steps ahead of my actions before I make them, which has kept me out of a lot of trouble and has made me wiser.

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