Spanked to Tears – Chris & Aiden – Hanging Up – Gay Romance, Domestic Discipline

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Now my wife is the woman that spanks me when I feel Ineed to be punished or behave like a naughty little boy. I am a Christian woman and I feel "exactly" the same as you. I want so much in my heart to be as God and my Husband wants. He really knows the submissive woman's heart!! What He suggests, and what my Husband does with me, is that he gives me a daily "submission" spanking. When my husband spanks me to tears....Wow! It makes me feel *very* submissive and obedient and I am very happy to do whatever it is that my Husband and God expects of me! Getting spanked to tears, and beyond is a very humbling experience and makes me *immediately* submissive! I need to focus on completing the tasks at hand with as much fever and attention to detail as is possible. I must live as if perfect obedience were my soul's greatest delight, because it should be. The commands given to me are given by rightful authority, and as such, are given by God to be the greatest aids to my soul on its way to Heaven. I ought to love them, cherish them, and venerate them as I would the greatest treasure on earth, for truly, they are more precious and more efficacious than any earthly gain. God's Holy Will, not mine, must take precedence. He must increase and I must decrease.

No matter the duration, intensity, or reason, your man had better appreciate that you care enough to spank him. Never let him forget to thank you for your efforts on his behalf. He should be very grateful you care enough about the strength of your relationship to spank him, and for all the attention and help you are giving him to help him in self-improvement, discipline, and endurance. Spanking to tears is an effective way to discipline a submissive woman. Although it may be painful, the act of discipline teaches her that she needs you. Even if the punishment is minor, it still teaches her that you are serious about your relationship and that it’s worth the effort. In addition to the emotional and physical benefits of spanking, tears also encourage submission. This technique is an excellent way to heal a marriage and improve the relationship between you and your partner. Spanking a boy

Answer: I’m usually well behaved for a month or two after a good domestic discipline session. There are three kinds of spankings she normally gives: Impromptu swats for spur of the moment infractions (usually just a handful of swats), Attitude adjustments (these are more dedicated spankings where I’ve earned swats for doing or not doing something but haven’t quite earned a trip to the woodshed), and then of course “ Woodshed Whuppin’s” (these are the worst of the worst and happen about every 1 and a half to 2 months). Answer: Not at all. Again, this is consensual. I could tell her I don’t want to do it anymore but I have come to understand and appreciate its value…to me, to her, and to our relationship. There is so much trust and communication that is necessary when doing this kind of thing, that it has actually taken our love, trust, and intimacy to new levels. My wife wrote a great post about the benefits of having a spanking relationship with your husband, that highlights some great points regarding its ability to help eliminate tension between a couple. Besides being physically painful, spanking a child to tears can also teach them not to do something they shouldn’t, like hitting the furniture. It can also teach them to speak up and turn away when a parent doesn’t want them to. It will also teach them to resist when you tell them to. The key is to know when and how to use the spanking technique positively. It is best to spank when the child is expressing defiant behavior. I used to be quite defiant, and the spankings have really helped. HOH and I decided that I'm a woman that needs to be spanked *everyday*. So, I get a "maintenance" or "submissive" spanking every day. Spankings of every level of severity have psychological benefit for training your man, regardless of his ability to maintain his emotional composure. It is also true that you will never make more valuable progress in training through spanking than every time you push him beyond his threshold for tears. Not every spanking needs to be about whether he cries or not, and certainly your interest in reaching tears may vary greatly from one type of spanking to another. Some women believe spanking to tears is too much, while others believe that reaching tears is a sign the spanking has worked and should end. Still others believe that spanking is just warm up until tears are reached, and only then does the actual teaching spanking begin. No matter how serious you are about spanking, remember to break your man in over time, and not to go from zero to sixty right away.

I had been spanked bare bottom over my mothers knees since I was 5 years old and it always made me cry before she stopped punishing me. I was terrified of having anyone know that I was being sparked and she said if I violated rules with other present that she would take me someplace and blister me even if others could hear. I seem to fail in charity, humility, and obedience. Pride is not being burned out of me. When I succeed in obeying the Rule, I fail at the same time because I have pride in succeeding." (Sister Luke, "The Nun's Story) Many women cry after being spanked, either because they are sore from the pain or want to please their man. But sometimes, women cry because they are stressed or worried about something in their lives. Whatever the reason, crying during a spanking is healthy for both men and women. Thankfully, it is not a sign of failure for the woman receiving the spanking. Instead, this technique can lead to a deeper relationship. I told her how I felt and blushed deep red as I asked her to start spanking me again. We talked about my reason for wanting to be spanked and I told her that I needed it and deserved it because of my bad behavior.An old wives’ tale is: ‘Spank a boy to tears.’ It sounds innocent enough, but the truth is, it’s illegal in some countries. For example, Bolivia, Benin, and Brazil make spanking illegal. Other countries, such as Cape Verde, Denmark, Costa Rica, and the Dominican Republic, do not allow spanking. Here are some of the reasons why spanking is a bad idea. My mother was determined to make sure I got what I see ked and used her wooden hairbrush very effeciently. Answer: Never. Firstly, I know I can be a handful. I also know I have aggressive personality traits. So when she has deemed it necessary to give me a spanking, I know that I’ve earned it, deserve it, and quite honestly need it. You can use the color of your man's bottom to gauge the level of mental effect your spanking is achieving. The more memorable you make each spanking, the greater the benefit it will be for you and your man. Spreading out the spanking evenly across every area of his bottom will reduce the appearance of blood from welts or cuts from your implement. This will allow you to spank longer, and harder, while preserving the overall integrity of the skin so he will be ready for your next spanking. With the right balance, you can ensure that every time your man sits down, he will be thinking of you and your loving discipline. You can also maximize your effectiveness and total strokes by using a variety of implements in one spanking. This type of relationship works with same sex couples. We are both females. I put my girlfriend over my knee when she gets out of line. My girlfriend is a big girl (5’11”) and I’m quite small (4’10”), but I insist on putting her over my knee as it adds to the humiliation. And, don’t let my petite size fool you. I give tough spankings that will change undesirable behaviors.