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During the practice the slave repeatedly obeys the commands and does not keep asking if she should obey as that is answered at the beginning of the practice. The repetition of obedience is the engine which drives future obedience. During the practice the expectation of obedience is there and the questions are not repeated with each command. The more someone obeys simple commands, the more they will obey more complicated commands. Each time the resistance to obedience is overcome there will be marginally less resistance to any new command. Many simple acts of obedience without the internal questions will layer up to the slave obeying complicated ones. Starting with many small acts of obedience works better than beginning with the complicated ones that can be confusing or may require more trust that has not yet been earned from the slave. It is slower but the Dwell Time for automatic obedience is much longer than the more complicated commands which will likely result in internal questions that are asked every time the command is given. Success: Bimbo (Bim) - Seductive (Sed) - Slutty (Slt) - Weak (Wea) - Educated (Edu) - Basic Lesbian Training (Partial) - Sex Addict (Sex) - Faith: The Goddess Shallya (F:Sh) What if you want to try and avoid the rule breaking and consequences all together? For me, punishment creates fear. The last thing that I want to do is have fear of my Dominant. Sometimes punishments are necessary, but you don’t have to always use that as your go-to. Rewards can go a long way to getting the submissive to stay in line. At least it works for me. The goal is the slave learning, obeying and performing the slave positions properly when commanded to do so. The tool is the obedience to commands. The slave positions themselves act as physical reinforcers of her enslavement to the Master. Learn everything you need to know to become a BDSM expert. We'll cover TRUE Dominance and submission, not what other blogs will try to tell you. You'll discover new bondage techniques to TRANSFORM your sex life, and discipline and punishment strategies that actually work.
Touching Restrictions- The submissive is not allowed to touch or be touched by the Dominant. If the submissive shows their affection through touch, this can be especially difficult. A submissive naturally wants to please their Dominant. It’s who we are at our core. We want to make others happy. It is what we need to feel whole. But it has to be with a Dom that won’t abuse their power. A Dom that will want to nurture our need to please; knowing that if they know how to exercise their control correctly, they will be given the most precious gift they can be given. They will be given the trust and full devotion of their sub.
7.5 Punishment Protocols
Be careful about fake Doms. Some Doms aren’t in it for the power play, just the power. This need for power and control can become abuse in all forms. There is a difference. Punishments are necessary to ensure that rules are followed, and boundaries respected. The Dominant shouldn’t take pleasure in punishments when it is for legitimate rule breaking. Funishment (bratty behavior or rule breaking during play) is very different. If you feel that you are being abused, you should try and get out of the relationship. She keeps exploring the endless universe of Femdom by interacting only with those, who are willing to fully sacrifice their heart, body and soul to the 24/7 service. She owns the Purple Ass as her 24/7 slave for 12 years. He is kept chaste long term and Mistress Emma enjoys to improve his submission by a number of fun practices, including corporal punishments. As a submissive, when I hear these things, it helps me relax. It helps me trust. It helps me see myself the way my Dom sees me. I want to please him, and when I please him, he rewards me. And that thrills me more than anything. He has me and it makes me want to do more to please him. I’m delighted and fulfilled when he is happy with me.
Addington, Deborah (1993), Fantasy Made Flesh: The Essential Guide to Erotic Roleplay (1sted.), Greenery Press, ISBN 978-1-890159-47-4 Terminology [ edit ] Model dressed as the fictional slave-girl Kajira from John Norman's Gor novelsMy name is Goddess Saffron. I am a Femdom, Financial Dominatrix and Hypnodomme. Welcome to heObeys, the first of it’s kind, online slave training course academy, interactive workhouse and slave community. How does slave training work? Upon entering Landa, You must type an intro message consisting of at least three lines and being very descriptive of your entrance. Landa is your home now, so you do not Outside the BDSM community, the relationship of Master/slave is sometimes regarded as a form of consensual sexual slavery. In BDSM, a slave is a specific type of submissive. The Master/slave relationship refers to the relationship between the individuals involved, and does not necessarily require any specific acts, sexual or otherwise, though sexual activity is usually an aspect of the relationship. The sexual aspect could be conventional, and not necessarily BDSM. A slave could also be a masochist or bottom, but this is not always the case. [4] I will state that I forgive them. At this point the violation is satisfied, they are free to forget all guilt, and they will be expected to act differently in the future. There are many physical types of punishments and those are the ones we typically think of. And while impact play can be a part of your BDSM relationship, the Dominant shouldn’t push the submissive with corporal punishments that push them beyond their limits. Safe words can be used during punishment if they are needed. The Dominant shouldn’t use punishment in moments of anger and they should remain in control.
One way that you can do that is to use positive reinforcement when the submissive is following the rules. Positive reinforcement can be as effective as corporal punishment. Rewards can be used as motivators. As a submissive myself, nothing makes me happier than pleasing my Dominant. If I please him, then he reciprocates with more doting behavior. He delights in making me happy. So if I follow the rules, he rewards me. It makes me want to keep behaving. Positive reinforcement works best for me. Various forms of symbolism are sometimes used to affirm the owner/slave relationship. These include wearing the owner's collar, being registered in a slave register, adopting (sometimes legally changing to) a name chosen by the owner, or engaging in a public declaration or ritualized ceremony of some type. When you’re on the receiving end of this type of punishment you may be asked to count the number of strikes. Counting aloud can really drive home the importance of the rule and the consequence for breaking it.Critical Success: Exceptional Beauty (Exc) - Magic: Illusion (M:Il) - Elementalist: Water (E:Wa) - Hypnotic (Hyp) - Magic: Summoner (M:Su) - Seductive (Sed) Part of the draw of the lifestyle as a submissive is to relinquish control to someone else so that they can help you be the best version of yourself. It’s not all about pleasure, well, that’s relative. There is pleasure in having someone take charge of parts of your life. There is pleasure in exploring how far you can push yourself. That’s why submissives need Dominants. It’s about learning your limits and having boundaries. The Dominant that you gift with your submission will guide you and enforce the boundaries when you forget. How they enforce is between you both and is something that should be discussed frequently. Below are just 20 such paintings (there are many more). Aside from noting the artist’s name; year of painting; and, where possible, title—information which is often difficult to ascertain — I’ve limited my remarks to important asides and clarifications, mostly in the first few paintings, leaving the rest to speak for themselves. They follow. There are two different elements at play here. One is discipline and the other is punishment. How are they different, you ask? Don’t they go hand in hand? Yes and no. By definition discipline is to train to act in accordance with a specific set of rules. This is like going to the gym when you are training for a race of some sort. Punishment is a consequence of breaking a set of rules that have been established. Think detention for being late to school. Two sides of the same coin that work together for the best desired outcome.
Once a slave has begun to realise that there truly can be no possibility of escape more advanced lessons maybe taught until the desire to obey without thought is as reflexive as breathing.Before you eagerly start your journey, I want you to understand that this is indeed REAL slave training. My conditioning is not for the faint-hearted as there will be many challenges ahead. However, that voice deep within you is begging to experience the trials I have ready for you. Just by reading this, I know you are already ripe and ready to explore your inner submissive needs. It is time for you to end the fantasy and make it reality. Can I be a slave? Many times, a Dominant will use small tasks to test a submissive’s willingness and ability to obey. When the Dominant sees how the submissive responds to these tasks, they have a better idea of whether they want to continue the relationship and/or how much training the submissive will require. As a submissive, the why for a rule being in place or why I am being given some, what I think is, a random task is very important to me. I happily comply with small, seemingly insignificant tasks. The Dominant should explain why menial tasks are assigned or why they are required. When the submissive understands the purpose, they will be happier to comply. No IM's are to be kept between a V/visitor and a slave without authorization; if S/someone comes in and IM's any one of the slaves, it is a slave's duty to copy and post the IM's in public. Example: (a girl speaks to her Master Ubar.)"Mistress Dez asked me to wash the floors Master Ubar.")